What Keeps Me Retuning to Chiang Mai in Thailand

There are many reasons why Chiang Mai has become one of the world’s most popular places for tourists and expats. One post isn’t going to cover all of them, so I will start with those that keep luring me back year after year, except for two years: one during COVID and the other in 2016, when I went down to South America. This year is my 16th time here in Chiang Mai along with detours (often a visa run) to other places in SE Asia. However, Chiang Mai, the second-largest city in Thailand, has lured me back every 16th time. I really love the rection I get from many Thai faces when I tell them this.

Thailand is an easy country to visit, and Chiang Mai is a great place to find just about everything one looks for as a visitor in a foreign city: friendly people, delicious food, easy modern-day living, a warm climate, varied activities and sights to see, colourful festivals, and markets galore for shopping at reasonable prices. Whew! One can’t get bored in this city even after 16 visits. Of course, it’s by no means perfect. The traffic is heavy and noisy, but I give the drivers credit for watching out for us pedestrians. I feel safe walking here, so I use my feet to get where I want to go instead of relying on tuk-tuks, songtaos or a Grab taxi. Buses are almost extinct. Motorbikes and huge late-model cars seem to be the people’s choice for getting around the city. I wouldn’t be surprised to find that cars could be outnumbering motorbikes indicating that there is a fair amount of wealth in this city. However, this has led to more noise and pollution. When I first visited the city in 2008, there was a brave plan in progress to ban cars and trucks from the inner city which is encircled by a moat. A large number of residents tried to get the local government or council to have electric trains only to enter the city. There would be no huge cars cluttering the streets and better sidewalks for the pedestrians. Unfortunately, that hasn’t happened and instead has put the city’s air quality up to the level of other large cities in Asia.

Honestly, I cannot think of any more negative things about Chiang Mai. I have written about the smog and pollution in some of my past posts. Scroll down to the bottom of this post for some of those if you want to know about the changing climate and what some have done to get the government to pay more attention to it. The weather seems to vary from year to year. Since I have been here this year, December and January have had almost perfect weather with cool nights and warm days (none above 30 degrees centigrade). There has been no humidity and no rain. It will no doubt get hotter as the days go by causing the quality of the air to get worse. In the past, by the time April rolls around, it’s unbearable at least to me. The weather in the dead of winter back home in Nova Scotia is another factor determining why I keep coming back in December, January and usually February. However, not this year, as I must return for other stuff I need to pay attention to. This year the weather has been horrible with rain, freezing rain and snow so far. Having the sun every day as I have had this year in Chiang Mai, has been the perfect medicine I have needed to sleep better and jump out of bed more quickly than I do at home. Oh, I must add that having at least seven coffee places around me for my morning coffee has helped also.

Another lure for me to return to Chiang Mai every year instead of some other country is the market scene which beckened me to start up a small business back home in Nova Scotia, Canada, selling clothing and accessories made in Thailand. My customers love the Harem pants and anything with elephants on it. This year, I am sensing a slight change in taste to anything with cats on it, which I hope will give the elephants some competition. I have been buying pants, shopping bags, and some other cute stuff which I am hoping will attract my customers back home. Over the years, I felt the need to keep this little business going to make a bit of extra money, which I have used to pay for my airfare over and back again. Therefore, it’s become safe to say that Chiang Mai has become like a second home for me.

I have often thought I should become one of the many expats who have made their homes here permanently. It’s not just about the friendly Thai people and living in a warm climate, but there are other benefits as well, such as a much lower cost of living, a good health care system, and easier rules for choosing to live here full-time. If you would like more information on the benefits of living in Chiang Mae that I put together several years ago, you can go to the following post Back to the “Land of Smiles” published in 2018. The cost of living has gone up slightly for food and beverages but nothing like what I am facing in Canada. Clothing is still a bargain, so I hope to keep my prices down at home for my customers provided the shipping charges haven’t risen too drastically. Rentals are holding steady. I am paying a wee bit more for a month at BhanPongPhen where I have been staying for the past four years. For about $415.00 a month I am getting a small apartment with a kitchenette providing a fridge and microwave, free internet, and weekly maid service. Most importantly, the owners and their maid are very kind and helpful. Mrs Pong (that’s what I call her) is always supplying me with delicious snacks and Om their maid does a super job at keeping my small apartment clean.

Yes, my life here is very good which makes it difficult to leave. Sooner or later I will have to make a decision on where I want to spend the rest of my days. However, I believe I should have made this decision in 2018 when I was younger. I’m not sure Thailand would want me now at the age of 80, a milestone I faced in August. When I tell a Thai person my age, I get a wonderful reaction because most 80-year-olds here aren’t travelling and doing the things I am doing. As their elders reach my age, the young are expected to look after them. Elder care is low on the list for any kind of government help.

In conclusion, although I have stuck to all the positives for Thailand and especially Chiang Mai, there are the negatives. They are covered in some of my previous posts so you can go to them if you wish.http://Sundays in Chiang Mai, Being Inspired By Chiang Mai’s Changing Culinary Scene.

A Persistent Travel Bug

The travel bug hit me as far back as grade school in grade five to be exact. Yes, in those days we had geography as a subject and I can still remember the countries our book took us to. Japan was my first choice followed by Australia and Peru.

Fortunately, I am happy to report that I did visit Australia in 2018. Their strange animals and birds and the outback were the main attractions for me. I was also curious to see how similar we Canadians were to the Aussies and discovered that the most we had in common was we spoke the same language. I have never been to Peru but did get close when I visited Equador in 2016. Now what about Japan? Thanks to an eight hour layover at the Narita airport on my way home to Canada from Thailand in 2010, my husband and I decided to take the train from the airport to the town of Narita. We could have gone further into Tokyo but knew that it would be impossible to see much in such a large city except for hoards of people..

All told we had about six hours to tour this typically Japanese town. We were there in early April when the cherry trees were just beginning to show some pink. It took me back to one of the pictures in my geography book. When I look back on that day, I am flabergasted at what we managed to cram into those hours.

After warming ourselves up with a coffee at a MacDonald’s, we headed for the centre of the town and came across a large temple which fortunately was open so we were able to go inside. Japan as we know is famous for their temples. After roaming around the gardens with bonsai trees and other strange plants, we were fortunate to meet two lovely ladies from the Chamber of Commerce all decked out in their traditional kimonos. They had no trouble convincing us that we should come with them to take part in a typical Japanese tea, all for free. They insisted that I try on a traditional bridal kimono and took our pictures which I have packed away somewhere. As we continued our tour around the town, I was astonished at how clean the streets and sidewalks were, even the alley ways. There was not a bit of litter anywhere. I don’t remember there being much traffic. It was all so quiet and there was classical music playing on every street corner. We felt very welcomed by all those we met. One man we met on our walk recommended a restaurant where we could have a typical Japanese lunch. Although our waiter didn’t speak much English, he was fun and tried to be very helpful about putting together a typical Japanese plate of sushi accompanied by some saki to wash it all down. However, although the soy bean dessert was ornate and looked delicious, I wasn’t too keen on it.

By the time we had finished, we had just enough time to get out to the airport for our flight home. I didn’t want to leave and ever since I often think that I ought to make this my last country to visit before my travelling days are over. I know it will be an expensive trip, but if I start saving now maybe I can make it. Kyoto here I come! I watched “Somebody Feed Phil” on Netflix recently who took us to that city’s culture and food. It took be back to my one day visit to Japan and my dream as a grade school student that Japan was my first choice for countries I wanted to visit.

Daily writing prompt
What countries do you want to visit?

A Shopping Spree?

These days the last thing I could ever see myself doing would be to go on a shopping spree at least for myself. I have always had difficulty in shopping by myself and for myself especially with clothes. I am most successful when I have someone like my daughter or a close friend who knows me well and is honest and not afraid to say that something I might be interested in wouldn’t look good on me.

However, I seem to have no trouble shopping for others. I was once a buyer for a retail store that sold kitchen and gift ware. I loved doing that type of buying, displaying what I bought, and having our customers buy the merchandise I had chosen. I am still doing this today in my retirement years. For the last ten years and more, I visit Chiang Mai, Thailand which has markets galore. One day I suddenly realised that I should buy some of the great clothing and other accessories I was seeing at these markets and take it home to sell. I didn’t have a clue how or where I could sell it, but somehow knew I would. I was right and it did. I am still doing it. I have no trouble shopping for this little business and seem to make good choices because just about everything sells. Somehow it’s easier for me to buy this way whereas when I have to shop for myself, it’s much more stressful. Why? Probably because I am looking at the price tag and finding it’s too expensive. Besides most of the stuff I see these days I don’t really need. I am a retired senior so I don’t need a fancy wardrobe. When shopping for my business and for others, I don’t have to worry as much about the price tag. I know my customers well enough now that I can pretty much target the price range that will work. The other big bonus is that I can make enough money buying for others to help pay for another shopping spree in Thailand.

Daily writing prompt
Where would you go on a shopping spree?